Never listen to Naysayers, surround yourself with people that see the possibilities. Those that believe in reaching higher and higher until you accomplish your goal. Remember the only true failure is never trying at all. So turn off the Naysayers, even if the negative is coming from you. Replace the negative thoughts with I cans instead of can’ts. Besides what do you have to lose by focusing on the positive. If nothing else it’s a better frame of mind and it brings about peace. Negativity does just the opposite.